Matilda- too chicken to look. H's emails are filtered into their own folder so I know he sent one. I may give therapy together a chance, but he can't talk to me in person and he doesn't follow through. We were going separatly, him then me, then him, then me... and she was an intermediary. He didn't make his next appointment.
HS- you're right. I am there. What could he do? He could DO anything. Ring my doorbell, show up today at the gym and give me a hug, give me flowers, take me to a movie, take me on a date, he could talk to ME instead of telling my sister stuff.... he just has to DO something. I'm tired of emails and TM and him thinking and not doing.