IMP, with all do respect, what I had gotten out of Angelica's thread (and this might just be me personally) is that she was telling me that our journey's can not be rushed along. The timelines will happen in our own time.

Yes, we can be guided by the wonderful posters here but not forced. Posters have been telling me for a year to let go, but until I was actually ready, I couldn't. It wouldn't of been real.

I take what I want out of posts and like Virginia basically said to me, I am now at the point in this journey where I am taking new point of views from the posts. I could not be rushed there, I got there in my own time with the guidance of everyone here.

Thank you everyone!


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009