Yeah Im lucky..H came back. I sooo thought there was no hope with D in progress. but I didnt change what I was doing.

i was in the process of growing-changing. He came back sort of when I was not finished, so I hope I can finish with him what I was going thru.

I was so destroyed in the begininig much like you Mrs H. It took along time to get past the things my H was doing. I got very angry after that using the anger to move on....uhmmmm doesnt work that way. I let go of the anger and was sad but starting to GAL.

The next step was to be comfortable with who I was with the changes. But I was very sad with the D. So with H home I am working on being who I want to be with in the M. Add that to the myriad of feelings im going thru...maybe H is the stable one now...yikes!


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest