Mark is right. Bscially you have to imagine you have already detached and moved on. About the sexy dress, I agree he may see that 180 as a false one. Try 180s that make you feel sexy in jeans and tshirts or however you are happy with yourself. I think we are not supposed to plead or come on to them to getthem to come back as that looks manipulative.
My also said this week he will be moving and hopefully OW will be going with him, "If it works out." What a j#@%.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."