Wake up call is JUST that it does not mean your R is based on that. Can we call it a light bulb moment? WHen I got my wake up call, it opened my eyes to all my faults and how I contributed to the down fall of the M. You see I was for a breif time (on & off) a WAW. I can relate to seeing things as only black and white and seeing only the negatives in you SO.
This wake up call to me opened my eyes to EVERYTHING. I am thankful for that.
I still stand my ground. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions.