Thanks, Blackfoot. It's still "slow and steady as she goes," as NOP has taught me that the ONLY thing that will rebuild trust is ACTIONS (not words), demonstrated OVER TIME, and there have been lots of "two steps forward, one step back" moments already. But as long as the trend is FORWARD, and I do not waver on the "dealbreaker" standards and my wife is making honest efforts and demonstrating good character, I will be forgiving and do my part.

Still SO much to accomplish, though, and SO much healing that still needs to take place.

Choc.