Hey Xue I absolutely do remember the whole coffee thing and if she is getting it ready then you are way further along than I first thought when I read your posts of late I think her making you coffee is akin to her getting off the lounge in the bedroom - that is an awesome move for her - to be able to do something that is so linked to past negative emotions wish I could hug her for that step it was gianormous (having a problem with the spelling of that so it was bl00dy huge)
and what about you and mr nutter in the car - what a superb deflection of someone else's anger - and you both got to walk away happy (and he got to walk to away )
just had to check back in on you after the weekend