Trying to be positive - with hope

[ediemarie]

Hey Limbo - I just caught up on your thread - this struck me:

I know it seems better, but I wonder if it really is or is he just waiting for something better.

I totally know how this feels. I think that Retro will give you an opportunity to express this in a way that he will hear it (and I am hoping the same for my sitch). In the meantime I have found that acting as if really makes things better. The thought that he is just waiting around can really color all of your conversations and actions - though acting as if is difficult it's the one thing that seems to help. I find that there is such a fine line between putting the crap where it belongs in the past and dealing with issues in the present - it's not an easy juggling act.

Hang in there! less than 2 weeks to Retrouvaille - yoowhooo!!!