Also, as far as "playing games", there is a "freind" who is about to finalize his D. I have known him for sometime now & we have been talking and going out,but nothing more.
In some ways my H is like me. This A was a big wake up call to me and to how I had taken our M for granted and I guess knowing how my H is I am in hopes he will "wake up " like I did. Other websites encourage instilling jealousy in order for the WAH to realize what they may be about to lose. Ofcoarse, most prolly will not react so angrily,but those are personal issues my H has to deal w/, whether I have OP or not.
Now its time to detach and wait to see if H acts upon the feelings he prolly did not realize he still has for me (per his words).
You know that saying u dont know what you got until it goes away? well, though our M had anger and power struggle isssues, I did not realize just how much I had taken H for granted and was just sweeping away our promblems under the mattress until another woman came and made me look at my faults as he was seeing only her positives.
