Ok, My H is not happy with the situation. he wanted to have his cake and eat it ....
He is clearly angry with me, frustrated that I am difficult to communicate with (his words)(meaning i will only talk to him about son and nothing else that is going on in my life)
He is VERY curious as to why I am acting like I am. (totally blanking him - seeming not to care)I am getting a lot of attention that way. (Not sure if it is good attention...)
He is making any excuse to come to the house and trying to get me to talk. He is seeing our son every day - taking him off somewhere (H is not allowed in the house)
For me.. I am feeling great most of the time. . I feel I have control over my life. I do what is best for me, not what is going to keep him happy. My H gets a lot of reasurance that I am still in the game by upsetting me when he is around. I have taken that power away from him.
For me it is brilliant. My son is gaining a lot out of it too. Not sure what is going on with my H. It is either making him realise what he has lost ...or pushing him closer to OW. Not sure. Time will tell.
One thing for sure is . . he doesn't seem like a happy man; a man in the honeymoon period of a new relationship. he looks like a man with the weight of the world on his shouldres.- shame! ;O)
Take care Nutty x
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
