When to move back in together?

[saffie]

the girl,

I have just posted to you on your other thread but I just wanted to add something here.

Does your H HAVE to move back in with you in 30 days? Would he not wait until after the Retro weekend? It's not much longer and that would seem a more obvious choice of timing depending on the results of the weekend. You might feel happier/ more sure about the moving back in together after then aswell.

It's just an observation, but it seems that your H is dictating the speed of things at the moment whilst I sense hesitation in you. You BOTH need to be happy about the ways you are moving forward.

Does he still work with OW. My H cut contact with OW in one swift move with NO contact afterwards. I think if there is contact, from reading of other people's experiences, it just prolongs the pain and the piecing is harder; the likely hood of a relapse greater. If he still works with OW would your H consider applying for a job elsewhere? The OW in my H's case resigned.

Just some thoughts.

Saffie