I re-read my post and perhaps clarification is in order. Some of you may have understood me to say I am offering her 60%. While I'm generous, I'm not crazy (and I'm too old to essentially start over). I'm offering her 40%...which still leaves her richer for having married me and leaves me poorer for having married her. Given that she had the PA and left, that seems like a pretty good deal from my perspective.
