My disability: I've had a really bad hearing impairment all my life, and I struggled all through school and in the workplace. This caused a lot of tension in my marriage. My H resented the fact that he had to work 2 jobs because I had so much trouble trying to get/keep jobs that didn't require phones/public contact, or even understanding verbal instructions from supervisors and co-workers. I'm going to apply for Disability this week, but the approval process takes a long time -- from several months to two years.
I've got a complicated situation, and believe it or not, the lawyer I contacted advised me NOT to file for divorce/separation right now. Seeing that I definitely want to reconcile, he told me to be very nice to my H, and hang in there.
My S13 is not in any kind of divorce therapy for kids, and I'm not aware of any programs like that in my area.
