When to move back in together?

[the girl]

Thanks Sara. I really value your perspective. I need to read your threads, too.

Well, he has given his roommate his 30 day notice. That gives us a month to prepare to move back in together.

I guess I can try to explain to him that I moved out so that he could decide which woman to be with. He is still free to explore that, but I am not going to live with him while he does. Correct? That way, I am posing it as a choice, not a demand.

The problem is that he has previously been unable to cut contact, lied to me, then I uncover it and he gets mad at me for snooping...etc. etc.

What do I really need? That is a great question...
I'll think and pray. I need a strategy...
The Girl