Ugh what a nightmare. Stop pleading and begging. Psychology says that will drive him further away. If you are sure he already knows you want him home you no longer need to remind him that you both want different things. It will make you lok like you have low self esteem. Wayward spouses move in with OP because they are in transition. If you do use LRT he will soon see the grass is not always greener but it may take a few months to a year. Maybe a few days, hard to tell. The problem is the damage to you and your son. Children take betrayal very personally and we need to keep that insanity out of our home by setting up some boundaries. Keep reading.. You will find reassurance that you are not alone. Focus on DBing. Focus on your health. Keep looking sexy and you will start to feel sexy and attract more positive energy. Try not to rally the troops. Of course they will say to file for divorce because they do not want to see you in pain. The problem is that divorce is not a pain killer quite the opposite. Reconciliation is ideal but you have to roll up your sleeves and really DB. Does your disability mean you are also on meds? Have you been to individual therapy? What about your son? I have enrolled my D6 in group and individual therapy. It is a beautiful thing to see actually. Kids and teens just need some reassurance that they are not the only ones in these family situations.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."