You have to look at the big picture or focus on your Northern Star. Maybe it is that you will be happily married grandparents? How do you get there together. You can keep DBing even now. He may need to pursue so you feel more stable about Piecing. You may need to agree with everything to make the path back to you a safe one. Affairs are an easy out and M takes work. Some WS choose affairs just because they seem easier. But if you are positive, cool, no low self esteem, you are showing you are happy if he comes back or not. That is irresistable. Don't get tired now. You have to focus on your Norther Star. Keep him home. Good DBing to you. Eye on the Prize!!! PS I wish I had your problem right now!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
