Hi Jeff,

Thanks for the fathers day greet. Had a better day than I imagined I would (fancy that). Still, it could have been heaps better.

Took the kids (3 youngest, eldest is more independent now) out till mid afternoon and had the option of going to in laws for afternoon tea with w's extended family. Knowing w would have om round I advised MIL & FIL 'thanks for the invite but I know you'll understand why I wont be there', MIL said I can hang around the others and he keeps a low profile. Made me think 'yeah pretty low indeed'. So got back to family home and w was out for a ride with om, said I my good byes to the kids and left.

Went to the local spiritual church after leaving family home and did a meeting later that evening. I made sure I did a few more meetings that week just in case.

All in all not a bad fathers day. It is funny how our thoughts can dream up all sorts of nightmare scenarios for us isn't it.

Take care

Paul.