Howdy, don't know if you have access to the AA big book, if you do there is a chapter for the spouse in it you might want to have a read of.
Al-Anon must be helping you, my w went once a week for about a month and has shown no interest in going back telling me she has done her steps.
I do hope your h gets it, the AA I mean. Stopping the drinking is just the start once stopped you've got to face the dramas you have created and people you have hurt AND you have got to learn how to live.
Your h is lucky he still has your support. Good luck.
