It just seems that everything I have learned from these boards seems to be in question lately.
Mrs H, you gorgeous thing - it's not the advice that's changing - it's you.
You are growing and getting stronger. You are at a stage where you are ready to really SEE what is being posted.
In the early stages, when we are in great trauma, we take from the postings what we need - which is generally "If I leave him alone and make myself appear pretty and happy, he might realise what he's missing and come home". As the journey progresses, we become stronger and better able to understand that there is so much complexity to this whole thing.
You should be very proud of yourself. You are getting stronger and wiser.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
