Our H sound very similar, however my H is the one who wount communicate...we are going to the Retro weekend you are, although in different countries!! I am really struggle to!, we have been doing this along time, and instead of getting easier I am finding it harder. We should compare notes on the weekend! Take care!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!