OK. I'm sure you do feel beaten down. I felt that way too before Retrouvaille. I felt like everyone's servant. It was a point I was able to make in my writing. And my husband has made an effort to be helpful ever since.
What's amazing about Retrouvaille is you don't fight about anything there. You just write about what is important to you. When your H knows what's important to you, then he knows how he needs to change to improve things. And vice versa. All done without an argument! It is magic.
So hold off on the arguments. You can always do it after. Just get there, and walk in the door with open minds and willing hearts. The rest will take care of itself.
And if not, come back here and complain to me. I will listen.
