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I think there are a couple (at least) on the Piecing Forum. Look for ImLin and DebinDenver to name two. RCRs Sweetheart was always threatening divorce and he came back.

Mrs H - standing or swaying or sitting or swirling around in circles .... all you can do, right now, right or wrong, is get on with your life.

Imagine, in a perfect world, your H goes through the Heartsblessings time line or similar and comes home in 2 years? Who are you going to be when he does? What are you going to have been doing while he was gone?

That's what you need to focus on now.

I don't know if you H is going to come back, from reading your posts I would argue stongly that you deserve a partner who is a damn side more mature, loving and compassionate than your H is right now.

Some do come back - some have apparently been through some sort of miraculous transformation that sends them back as better, stronger, more loving, mature spouses. Some come back as the same old creep - and LBS choose to have them back anyway.

Does any of that supposition matter to your sitch right now? Not really.

Keep all the hope of reconciliation you need. Please continue to hope - hope is the most amazing tool we have for pulling us through the darkest days of our lives. While you are hoping and praying, just remember that if or when he does come back, you will be the best Mrs H you can be. You will have used this time to invest in yourself, grow and be the most amazing Mrs H there is.

Prayers to you.