we saw each other from 4 pm to midnight tonight... First meeting at (now) my place to go through the finances (which we didnt finish.) Then working together from 6 pm to 9pm. We had SO MUCH FUN....
Started off with him being more than one hour late. I painted my nose red. (A bit like in DB) to not become angry. He came in and laughed as soon as he saw me. Told him WHY I did it. He felt sorry for being late, it told him it was ok but that in the future I'd expect him to be in time. He liked the idea of doing funny things if one of us was doing an "all of the same". And we were thinking about heaps of funny things we could do.
At work, it also felt ok to stand behind the bar together. As he had gotten into an argument with his sister, we were talking about how he could maybe reslove it - eg. Then at 9 I told him he could go home - if he liked to. He didnt. He stayed for three more hours. There were moments where he started touching me just as if nothing happend (there is not a lot of space behind the bar)
And THEN: In one very funny situation we had with our guests, he suddenly tried to KISS me. HELLO? He felt "sorry" for it just after it happend and hugged me and excused himself with like: ahum, sorry, old habit, I hope I did not go to far, ahum.....
Have to say, he had a few beers by then, but was not drunk. But afterwards he became very silent and left about 20 minutes later. But not without hugging me again.
NOW WHAT IS THAT??????????? Does anyone of you have an idea what might be going on in his head????????
How do I react in similar situations? I do NOT want to rush anything! I'd be very happy to get your ideas!
