I'm proud of you. It is a place we need to be. Yes, it is painful, but that is how we change and grow. Our H's are avoiding this pain, that is why they are stuck and miserable in their skin.
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"