Inmyplace,

The reason I am doing what I am is because I could not live with myself catering to my H when he is doing such evil. I hated it. I could not fake being nicey nice to someone like that. Even though I still love him, I don't like him. I believe in consequences, it is what I teach my children. I was not being an example by acting like his adultery was not serious.

My H never apologized or repented for destroying his family. Until he does this, he will never see or hear from me again.

Thanks for supporting me. Many of my friends and family do not.
Sometimes I feel very alone and scared, but I have to look in the mirror.


Me: 45
H: 43
Married: 19 years
Dated 05 years
Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"

Kids: 16 (s)
13 (d)
2 (d)

"If god is for us, who can be against us"