Well LWB, at this point I am dumbfounded. She is so ill that common reason doesn't apply to our sitch and DBing isn't very effective either. She is very intelligent and always seems to be two steps ahead of me (I am intelligent too, but this is a game of manipulation that W seems to be much more skilled at than I). Only hope is this: she delivered the papers herself, and in my state that can render the entire D illegal and it will be thrown out if I can get by on it. Will ask a lawyer friend about that one this week. I am also debating about seeing if I can have a psych evaluation done before anything moves further. My W is mentally and emotionally ill, and right now I don't think she is in any condition to be making these decisions. I could accept the D if I was certain she was in her right mind, but I, as well as my own T are certain she suffers a number of possible serious disorders. I love her so much, and want to forgive her through all of this, even though she is a on a mission to annialate our life together.
