She sent a pic of them? What does that mean? Does she want you to see her picture up on your wall? Um, that actually sounds romantic and thoughtful. It is a sweet sentiment.
Kind of like today, when I picked up my kids from their Daddy Date. We joked about Mr. Bean and French humour. He kissed the kids goodbye. Then my Son2 yelled out, "Daddy, kiss Mommy now! Ack! Kiss Mommy!" I turned bright red! Even a two year old knows Daddies are supposed to love Mommies!
Don't get too excited over the picture - S4 was with me for the last 2 weeks and she sent it with him. HE wanted me to keep it, he said mommy did too, but he's 4. Every day he would tell me to look at the picture because we missed mommy together.
I think if he saw me and W together, he'd tell us to hug and kiss too. He used to see us do that all the time, it was very normal, now...
He's a good boy and I want this to work out for him, because he deserves better than what we've been giving him lately. However, I've really looked this over and I want this to work out for ME and my WIFE! I'm fighting for this because SHE is of the utmost value to me. Do I like her very much right now, not really - her actions are very hard to deal with. But, do I think we can right our ship? Do I think we're better off together than apart - undoubtedly! THAT is the reason to fight for a relationship - you are better off together than apart! She'll see that truth soon enough. I'm getting good at being patient, so even though I think this is going to go on for quite a while longer, I'm prepared!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
