Just a simple answer to your question. Protect yourself.
Don't worry about hurting her feelings or causing her to get angry. The more you let her inappropriate behavior to continue the more financially she will devastate you and the more SHE WILL LOSE RESPECT FOR YOU.

My H did not stop and take notice of me until I started to do this. I know every sitch is different, but I believe the longer you let them walk on you, the more they forget about you and lose interest.

Luv goal


Me: 45
H: 43
Married: 19 years
Dated 05 years
Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"

Kids: 16 (s)
13 (d)
2 (d)

"If god is for us, who can be against us"