FYI, there is a difference between a playful swat on the butt and,
--the tentative faux oh i forgot going in for a kiss please don't reject me thing
and the
--oh let me tentatively touch your arm oh so sneakily and see if you flinch to see if you might really love me after all
W will play mommy and reassure you in the last two instances and feel pretty good about being a good mommy. But, neither kind of action is at all attractive in a romantic P.
