Financial advice--WAW still on a spending binge

[nephartiti]

I'm in a similar situation contemplating the same things. In my case we have 2 small children. Most of the money comes from him b/c my compensation for my job is an apartment and a small salary.

He has been spending $ on OW and a new cell phone. He says he is not going to cut me off but he has developed a reputation for not following through with his word.

He has the minivan we just bought. I have asked him to put that loan in his name, get his own acct, and agree to an amt for child support. Simply won't cooperate.

I don't know if this is because he doesn't know what he wants or if he is just being difficult and irresponsible.

If I push too hard, do I push him farther away? If I do nothing, do I get screwed?

I'd like to know how you decide to handle your situation.