Originally Posted By: WAW in the OC


My oldest S(17) has been caught using Marijuana! He told my W and me that it was because of everything that's going on. I sort of believed him but W is sure he's just using it as an excuse and doesn't think the D is affecting him at all! She's in fairy tale land because she doesn't think our D is affecting anyone adversely.



Hey Lloyd,

Your sitch may have influenced your son's decision BUT IT WAS HIS.
This is just like my W saying that she was not happy so she had an affair. TWO separate issues. Maybe your son needs counseling for some emotional stress caused by the marriage but the decision to smoke pot was his. (Just like it was mine back in high school).
It’s not the end of the world. Like I said I did this in high school and now I work at an electronics company and am a reserve Police officer in our city. I turned out ok.

Stay strong good buddy. (I just realized that if you put a u instead of an o in strong it becomes strung. LOL

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know