My point in expressing this was not to be comforted by you all... but thank you
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Corri, you do tend to get overly emotional when people disagree with you. And you make your points in such a harsh way at times it just seems...odd..to me. Why do you really care if the people on the boards "get it" or not?
My point in posting my OWN failings and limitations is to give examples of what I have been talking about. Pointing it out in someone else just makes it look like I am pointing a finger.
Why do I get so harsh and so upset sometimes? 'Cuz I do... don't know why really... but what I do know is those emotions are MY problem... and if I don't work my way through what I am feeling, I will come off appearing harsh and/or upset.
While there isn't anything wrong with either, it's just not how I'd prefer to act or respond. I don't want the feelings to go away... I'd just like to get a grip on it much better before I do or say anything. I know when I lose it now, and I know what to do to get myself back on track. Whew. That took quite a while FOR ME to get. Don't know if it would for anyone else...
It's part of what I've been talking about... and again, I am going to say, this stuff is not easy... at least, not as easy as it is to read about it.
