Ok guys here comes a long post! Sit back and enjoy the DRAMA scene and get some popcorn!
Friday night H was coming over to pick up the girls for the weekend. H calls he is on his way,but strts to talk R talk.
H- if I am coming back home theres gotta be some changes. I will not be able to live w/ if I dont call u back when I dont answer the phone right away that u queston my every move. Sometimes I dont hear the phnoe & thats wehn everyone, my dad, my sis calls. M- ok I got that,but tell me who here has the most work to do to earn trust? H- I do. M- right that means no u dont have to anwer the phone right away each time,but it doesnt mean u cant call me back at all. Also, it would be nice when I dont have to call & u just check in once in a while w/ me.Plus that isnt my biggest concern right now. Am I the only one who needs to make changes? H- I need to too. M- right. Marriage is a two way street. H- what is that? M- it takes the both of us to make this work and we both have to really try hard. H- ok but u have to stop talking to your Bf(imaginary) M-ok, but let me tell u something. My feelings for you r slowly dying. As time goes by I am liking being single, having the house to myself and the peace thats here.You know the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder? Well, not in my case its the opposite. The longer I dont see you the more my feeligns fade. In away something good came out of this. I have grown in so many ways. Not only for my next R, but for my children and for my mother...It scares me to see my feelings for you start to fade. (H-I know!) I am really for the most part at peace you know. H- ok well I will talk to you some more at home see you later!
As soon as H came in my room he took my purse and started going thru it! M- what r u doing? H- this is what u use to do go thru my things M- what r u looking for? H- i dont know anyting u wont tell me anything Then later he sat down on my bed & I expressed how happy I was to finally go dancing tonight (mind u I told him my plans yesturday via email). H- What? How long have u been planning this? Is he going? M- I told u yesturday. A group from work is going. H- is he going? M- I looked at him and changed the subject. H- ok fine u better not be bringignhim back her to my houe and in my bed! He then took my nw comforter and sid he was throwing it out(in the rain). All the while in front of the girls and they r saying no daddy no! So he stopped.
He threw it back on the bed and then proceded to go to the kitchen where he took the water hose & aimed it w/ water to my bed. Everything got wet. I got up closed the door. after I went to the livign room where he proceded to shoot more water at me. Shouting I am not going to babysit while u go out w/ him, you whore. I said *I* am the whore???? You r livign s husband and wife w/ soemone else.Go just leave back your wife. H- NO! she isnt! <shaking his head no, no back & forth> M- I am not waiting anylonger for you,C.
Before he left and after the girls were in his truck he took the soda liter and poured it all over the kitchen floor. Here dont u have to clean before h comes over. I was in awe or something. I maintained my cool in all of this. I had forgotten how angry he can get.
As I was closing the garage door , he came back grabed me amd wanted a kiss!!! I turned my head and said no. He still gave me a kiss.
About an hour later I recieve a text from him saying hes sorry for tonight and for me to have a nice weekend. I did not reply.
The next morning (Sat). he calls and I answered(wasnt going to but I a was curious). H- Are u you ok? M-yes H- I want to apologize for last night. M-I had forgotten how you can get. H- I dont do that anymore. I was just really mad.I guess I was being selfish. And I know your right I really cant say anyting myself.But you are still my wife. M-this reminds me a a spanish saying.<it may not sound the same in English> You are like a dog that doesnt want to eat his food but wont let other dogs eat it also.HA HA HA. (me trying to change the tone) H- i know i am dog Then I made it a point that I am looking toward the future and making plans w/out him. I told him the holidays were comign up soon & we had to talk about how we r going to divide the girls up. This will also be my first time cooking a turkey by myself. (h always cooked it).H- lets not talk about that righ tnow things may change... H- waht r u doing today? M- what did I say I was gonna do? H- your gognto Orlando/ M-yes M- i thought you werent going?<UGH! he has a hard time listening here lately) NO! I said I didnt want to go driving for two hours but my mom wants me to go. H- oh well I might take the girls back to the house and hang aout all day.R u getting back late really late? M- yes. H- ok well have a nice trip!
Well I am back from taking my grandfather to the Orlando airport & I hope today is a peaceful ecexperince w/ H. I hope you all r having a wonderful weekend! Sorry so long!
