HI
The LRT method is the Last resort method. I am new to using it myself but what I have been doing is

No matter what he sees me as happy. I am the happiest miserable person you have ever seen. I no longer push him for answers or try to talk to him about our R. I just go on with life in general and talk about mundane things. I even let there be silence if need be. I just keep living my life. I never let him see me down or unhappy. I just put a great big smile on my face and fake it until I feel it. The last step is the one I am having the hardest time with and that is the waiting and watching. I am a very impatient person but I am waiting. The watching is kind of driving me crazy because I see signs for one way and then I see signs for another way. So I am still very confused but I do think it is working some since we do not seem to be as stressed around each other.

I hope this helps


Lissie