[/quote] He surprised me... inside I jumped for joy but I did not show him I was elated he decided to stay.
IS THAT WRONG?
NO it is not wrong. You have every right to feel that way.
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He may not like this..... or that.... or the.... "NEW ME" and actually I have a hard time being this HARD all the time, but I must. I also have noticed that when I am " tough" with him he seems to be gentler more loving with me... does this make sense?[quote]
Yes this does make sense.
Even though he doesn't like it deep down he knows he needs it. To him it is an act of love from you when you are tough.
This is just my OP though and you can take it for what it is worth.
Have you read the book Tough Love, Sounds like it.
You go girl!!!
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
