Thanks. I know if im'e happy that we will both most likely be happier.
Sara,
Don't get me wrong i do spend time with H and do things for him. But I also started not doing things for me again and i think that is key here. If I am happier with me then im'e happier with life in general. Only H can do that for himself. No one else can do it for him. But I do think he is trying(in his own way).
Time will tell wether we make it or not, and im'e intending on being prepared either way.
Right now Im'e pretty sure we will, and have a better marriage. But there is a long road ahead and which way it leads is up to us and god.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
