Your story struck a chord with me. That is exactly where my H and OW seem to be. He has not admitted there is officially another OW, but he has moved out onto their "island". Calls her 20 times a day. WOW!
She has a boyfriend of 4 yrs at home taking care of her son. Spoke with him. He's a great guy and "trusts" her.
I just hope eventually my H remembers his kids are growing up without him.
____________________ M 29 H 33 D 5 months S 9 and 2 Bomb 6-30-07 Separated 8-19-07
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9