Your story struck a chord with me. That is exactly where my H and OW seem to be. He has not admitted there is officially another OW, but he has moved out onto their "island". Calls her 20 times a day. WOW!

She has a boyfriend of 4 yrs at home taking care of her son. Spoke with him. He's a great guy and "trusts" her.

I just hope eventually my H remembers his kids are growing up without him.

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M 29
H 33
D 5 months
S 9 and 2
Bomb 6-30-07
Separated 8-19-07


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9