Thanks for looking in, hows things going for you ?
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But I think that for people like you and me...who have such long histories with our WAS, it is likely a very long, very slow journey.
That is so true. Right now my sitch is in limbo , W has backed off from insisting we proceed with a formal separation for now.
I had an interesting weekend. Ihad a bit of a party on friday night and had some friends around, it went real well. I told W I was going to do it. She was quite withdrawn the next day when she brought D home. S16 no doubt told her that there was 20 people here and we were all having fun. Today W called by she takes D on sunday nights, she stayed at the house all afternoon . baking and washing . One of my oldest friends dropped by and I could tell he was totaly confused with the picture , he knows we have separated and here we look like a normal family when he calls.
W did show me a new bed she wants to buy for her apartment , so I guess shes planning on staying away a while. Later in the day she asked me if I thought it was OK that she got a new bed , I just said yes , you need to get it because the one you have is bad , I have no problem with that. It was a funny question I thought and perhaps she was fishing for some indication of how I feel about her planning on not coming back in the short term.
Anyway it was a nice afternoon , she stayed for dinner which I prepared and I was quite sad to see her go , even though I did my own thing most of the afternoon it was good having her around and she seemed to enjoy sitting with me and having a drink at the end of the day as well.
As strange as it may seem I look back at how we were 12 months ago and we have a much improved relationship from then and from any time we lived together since yet I still feel like I am driving with a blindfold on .
