I am in a dilema and i don't know what to do , this morning i phoned my husband to speak to D3 and she was screaming in the background and would not talk to me on the phone. It turns out she was screaming because she wanted to go in OW and my husbands bedroom. My gut feeling is telling me that when i rang, my husband quickly got D3 out of there bedroom and then made out that it was because he was trying to get her dressed. He kept saying to her talk to mummy and then we can go to the park, the trouble is, if he had been up with her he would have know that it is raining really hard and so there would be no way they could go to the park. I think what is happening is that on a morning D3 and OW S4 get up and play while my husband and OW stay in bed, This is not acceptable to me, in the past my husband has promised me that he has too much respect for D3 and i to allow for D3 to be exposed to them being in bed together, why can't he just get up with D3 when she wakes up and take her down stairs, i am not asking for much considering everything that has happened. At the moment i feel so disrespected by my husband and don't know where i want to go from here. I feel like telling him that if he can't respect D3 enough then she can no longer stay over unless he takes her to his mums.
Again my gut was telling me he was lying, even when he swore on D3 life and my gut feeling has never been wrong yet. I am so sick of loving a man who obviously has no respect or consideration to how things have affected D3 and i, in fact the man i love would never have done this, i don't know him anymore, everything it is still all about him and OW.
Hope everyone is ok
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved
, this morning i phoned my husband to speak to D3 and she was screaming in the background and would not talk to me on the phone. It turns out she was screaming because she wanted to go in OW and my husbands bedroom. My gut feeling is telling me that when i rang, my husband quickly got D3 out of there bedroom and then made out that it was because he was trying to get her dressed. He kept saying to her talk to mummy and then we can go to the park, the trouble is, if he had been up with her he would have know that it is raining really hard and so there would be no way they could go to the park. I think what is happening is that on a morning D3 and OW S4 get up and play while my husband and OW stay in bed, This is not acceptable to me, in the past my husband has promised me that he has too much respect for D3 and i to allow for D3 to be exposed to them being in bed together, why can't he just get up with D3 when she wakes up and take her down stairs, i am not asking for much considering everything that has happened. At the moment i feel so disrespected by my husband and don't know where i want to go from here. I feel like telling him that if he can't respect D3 enough then she can no longer stay over unless he takes her to his mums.