Excellent news buddy. It's good to see that you have gotten on with things.
Your W is def in La La land, and like yours, mine doesn't think anyone else is being affected. Her mothers is ill (depression from what is happening), her dad is a shell of himself, DD is becoming more difficult etc etc, but as long as she is happy with OM, she cant see it.
On the other hand my life is getting somewhat better (personally). I have bonded and become closer with DD more than I ever have. I have been able to spend more quality time with family and friends. My work is going really well, due to the extra focus, and my health is better than when I left the Navy in 94. I have started playing "old mans" Rugby, which I enjoy (don't really enjoy the after effects on the day after).
The OM issue still irks me, but I hope to fully get over this with time (I still have no tolerance for single guys hitting on married women with families etc regardless of who instigated it).
Anyway, good to hear from you buddy, all my best.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
