OM, MLC and the hits keep coming........Pt 4

[WAW in the OC]

Hey Andyv, Husband,
been busy trying to GAL. Just got all caught up in Andyv's story and I'm glad to hear you're being such a trooper. Well I followed the advice of the book that told me to start dating and I'm seeing a very nice lady that is a marriage counselor(that is also finishing up her own divorce).
She's been very understanding since her H also had an A and my W did too. It is nice to have someone of the opposite sex want me in a way that W didn't.

My wife filed, and we are in the middle of D proceedings. Attorneys are getting rich and W shows no signs of slowing the process. She has communicated with me but usually only to yell or complain about me. Much like your W Andyv, even if my W discovers what a terrible mistake she made, she would continue with D just so she doesn't have to admit she's wrong. She doesn't talk about R w/ OM and I don't ask. Much like you I also go on the emotional roller coaster(and feel like throwing up)!

My oldest S(17) has been caught using Marijuana! He told my W and me that it was because of everything that's going on. I sort of believed him but W is sure he's just using it as an excuse and doesn't think the D is affecting him at all! She's in fairy tale land because she doesn't think our D is affecting anyone adversely.

Anyway, glad to hear you've got your life. I'm looking forward to mine w/out W and w/ someone that cares about me.
LLoyd