Aswell as wanting attention ourselves, keeping up frequent neediness gives THEM attention and lets them feed off the high of feeling 'wanted' by more than one person.

The the LBS is hurting because their S doesn't want to give them their attention and the WAS basks in being fought over. It sucks

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength