Now I've done it

[mkultra]

Whoa Nelly. No more snooping! OK we have all done it. It can be addictive, but it comes to no good and look what happens when you get caught. Why should we look like the untrustworthy ones? But hey, life is not fair. Cheaters will lie. Lie forever if they could. They lie to A. protect their spouses-how sweet. B. avoid getting into trouble-how selfish. But do not have any expectations at this point. He does not have to be done but you know you cannot pursue him. It not only seems unattractive, it sets you up for disappontment. Unless, you want to call a lawyer right now and file for divorce? Then stop snooping and pursuing him full stop. You may not need to detach. You are having obsessive thoughts because you are tryingto make sense but it will not make sense. He is in LaLa Land. Is he Kevin Federline by any chance?