Trying to be positive - with hope

[cat03]

hon, you two are still getting over the shock of the A and its consecuences (do get the "not just friends" book, great healing tool)
Right now you are both on edge, scared, not knowing what will be next and prone to say things you dont' really mean (my H said so many things in anger one day that I truly thought we are done for)

Remember, there will be highs, but mostly lows on the way to recovery (at least at the begining, i just got over my own period of despair) and piecing and healing take a long long time.

Hugs, be patient and think very well before you say anything (no more ow references ok? my H told me once that the more I brought up ow stuff the more I refreshed her memory) Unless, that is, when it is time to talk about the A and if you both agree to have some questions answered. My C recommended that i should ask questions which will promote healing and to allocate a certain amount of time to that subject.

Be strong, this is a hard part of the journey, but you'll be fine)))))))))))))))))