The way I see it you are in a very advantageous position. We tend to glamorize affairs because we see them in movies or gossip about celebrities but in reality it can be damaging and underground. I saw a cheating woman on Oprah. She looked like a stroke victim because half of her face looked melted. Did you catch that episode? She had very low self esteem and would sleep with this married coworker in her mini van after dropping off her kids at school. He would use her and make promises. They would sneak around in cheap places and such. It sounded horrible.
LBSs on the other hand get to date and not sneak around and choose. We get to be more selective. We are not going to go with the first damaged soul who cheats around because of esteem issues. Affair partners are accidents, more like car wrecks. We have choices. A sea of choices, maybe even upgrades or we can be fine all alone. I do believe in marriage and reconciliation for life, but I also think dating can lead to DBing. I think we really have the better hand dealt here.
Last edited by mkultra; 09/02/0704:02 AM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
