KS, one thing that a wise man told me recently is this, don't let your XH determine your relationships with other men. Deal with new men in your life on new terms, determine your level of interest, trust, affection, attraction, whatever solely on their own merits, not on the way your husband dealt with things. It's good advice. Tough to swallow maybe, but it is right. Otherwise you punish yourself, and new people for what your XH did, that's not right, of course. have a good night! \:\)

We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.

3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...