LO, you have every right to feel the way you are feeling. You can't just turn off the hurt because he decides he's done with OW. You've been betrayed in one of the most hurtful ways possible, forgiveness takes time and effort on both your parts. Now that he's ready to work on the M, it means you must allow yourself to be vulnerable once again, your heart says "don't hurt me again". It's not easy to open yourslef up again to that possibility. So take your time, be gentle with yourself but do give him a chance! Just remember, he has to prove to you that he's worthy, not the other way around. Hang in there.


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White