trying to get a grip...

[HBT]

W8ing,
Good to hear from you! I agree with your post totally! I took some time recently to read and reflect and yes I do realize things must change and those changes have already begun! I've admittedly lost myself in our M and intend to do what I need to do to get ME back! There is alot of work to do no doubt and I'm still not sure what the right path is; but I'm thinking.... I used to be so independent and gave everything up for our M and family in too unhealthy a way.

I've been reading/responding in another thred which really hit home with me and I'm so thankful I came across it. There are some really wonderful people here!

My h is still coming by and calling and today I held my ground; the first BIG step for me and I think I gave him alot to think about! I hope anyway. I'll check in on your thred...Thanks for keeping tabs on me!