HBT - you did what all of us have done. It is certainly not pathetic...how in the world could you have known what was coming. If you were anything like me, you weren't expecting that conversation at all! I am still in shock from the last month and a half and cannot believe that it has happened. Your reaction was normal. And, by the way, your H should be the one who is humiliated - not you. He is the one making the inappropriate comments - it reflects poorly on him, not you.
What happened to his living situation with your SS. I thought that was ending....
