How do you see yourself Donna? Try to be positive. It is OK to wallow and cry and mourn. You will either get a better man if your H returns asking for forgiveness or you are letting go of a lost man who will not choose to get his sh!# together for his own family. I know it feels like a lose - lose, but in a way it can be a win-win. You can get yourself ready for a better life. One free form adultery and lies. We are in the thick of it now but time is on our side. Remember, we did not push anyone into an affair.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."